i am near 4o years of age and by the grace of God have saved myself for marriage. a girl and i fell very much in love. she said i was more than she prayed for. she had a death in the family and shortly after returning from the funeral started re-evaluating her whole life. she got scared because her ex husband cheated their whole marriage. we were starting to talk future plans and she got scared,real scared. so much in fact that she will not even speak to me. she said i did nothing wrong and i treated her better than she deserved. here lies the problem. she is not accustomed to being loved and felt too much pressure because i truly loved her and she did not know how to deal with it. she did not feel worthy. she has become a different person and treats me nothing short of a criminal. we are talking a 180.. please pray for the lord to heal her as he gaurds her heart and mind as well as give me direction and patience til he chooses reunite us.PLEASE! NO!!! OPINIONS OR ADVICE. i am only asking for prayer. feel free to drop me an email if u are praying . that would surely encourage me. thank you.i do have an update. The lord has shown me physical evidence that her heart is stirring. we were recently on the same cruise and had breakfast together so the lord is moving but i can tell she is still scared.