First of all, let me thank each and everyone of you for letting me share in your group. I have one beautiful bio-child that is 14 years old. My husband and I are seeking to adopt due to secondary infertility. I am very interested in learning all I can about adoption. When and if I do ever get the chance to adopt I want to have a good relationship with the birthmother. I want to know what to do and what not to do. Thank you for letting me get the opportunity to educate myself and hear your thoughts and your personal stories about adoption. Please feel free to visit my myspace profile.