Ok, I'm older and that fact may or may not ad me in my decision to post this.
Simply: I am sick and tired of people replying to posts with: "I'm so sad I don't have a girlfriend." "I want a girlfriend." Etc...
There are repeat offenders. (You know who you are.) One reply to a post I can see, two maybe, three no. It's the 1,2,3 STOP the Pathetic(ness) Rule from now on. Ha-ha. Laughing aside I'm serious. So instead of just deleting the responses; which, is annoying I'm giving all the girls a bit of advice instead.
I'm sure other members have seen the sad pleas for either attention or they're posting the "I want a gf," in hopes of letting everyone knwo they're available and ready for the flirting. *Shakes head*
Ladies, one does not obtain a girl by looking desperate, needy, anxious, depressed, pathetic and or easy. Get my drift? I've been a lesbian for a good 6 years now and the ^^ above are not attractive. The constant "I need a gf," mess does not draw people to you, but scare them away. Honestly, if one really has something to offer, it will shine through their personality and their words of conversation, but not by "be sad for me I need a gf."
Dude I agree with you. People need to have patiance. I say that if they just wait someone will come to you for who you are and not by your stupid request.
but yeah, i agree too. lf you want to find that special person then great, an ad is not the way to go though. granted i met my girlfriend through the Women Who Love Women group, but nethier of us where looking for dates, in fact the topic had to due with shitty days [go figure]. so yeah, you never know what will happen, just tough it out. enjoy the single life for a while.
but yeah, i agree too. lf you want to find that special person then great, an ad is not the way to go though. granted i met my girlfriend through the Women Who Love Women group, but nethier of us where looking for dates, in fact the topic had to due with shitty days [go figure]. so yeah, you never know what will happen, just tough it out. enjoy the single life for a while.
now it loks like i’m talking about the girl above me. haha
great reaction time to the spammer though Rachel :]
