Hi Guys--i think i have a problem--ive come across this nonsense in the past--maybe its just an Irish thing donno---heres it is anyway--hot girl usually working in a shop is all friendly towards you first couple of times you go in there---then suddenly when youve just about worked up the courage to ask her out or even develop a friendship or rappor by having a conversation---she suddenly stops smiling, saying Hi, or even answering you when you speak ,next she starts giving you these dirty looks as if youve broke into her house robbed,raped and killed her family---or else looks everywhere but at me pretending not to see you and the more you try to be friendly and regain ground the more she treats you has a creep and for a finish with the cold shoulder treatment you begin to think you are one and it really smashes any self confidence you have built up---whats the answer is it to fight fire with fire and start twisting my head up my ass pretending not to see her-dont ever go into the shop again ????

Please help me out guys--im really into this one and she was good person before she started this crap --why do they have to do everything so God damned weird--or is she just plain not interested and i should just lick my wounds and get lost

Please someone help me

Well I’ve seen this before, , so heres my humble opinion, I worked in a casino with cocktail waitresses and regular waitresses , I recomend this for anyone looking to get a fly on the wall idea how women think. Be a bus boy You will learn interesting things.
Anyway what you decribe here is number one, , when she was smiling she was in state I call it, basically a good mood .. You should have pulled the trigger then.. Now since you hesitated several times she is wondering what the heck is wrong with you. Then theres number 2 the out of state thing she may have had a death in the family , just found out she is pregnant, or has a STD etc. Really bad time for hooking up, , LOL! If you want to find out just keep going there and be friendly, bust her balls no matter how much of a bitch she acts like. She will eventually give you a clue.